If you go at life with an attitude of "it'll all work out" a lot of things become easier. The first thing I noticed is that things end up just working out for the best no matter what. Somehow, for me, if I leave flexibility for change things work out. Especially without over thinking . Most of the time when I stress out about something I get over obsessive about it, over think it, and generally end up with no conclusion. Now I try to think of things as they arise, stay current, and stay aware. Because if you make every moment it's best, then there won't be a bad one.
I've also started a new habit of saying "yes" to things much more often, no matter what the situation. If I can take the current mood and feel of the moment and make it better by "yes, and-ing" I'll have then improved my life and someone else's. The way this system is related to the prior system is because if I keep saying yes things balance out.
For example, let's say I'm with friends, just hanging out, and i get asked to go somewhere else. I say yes to that. As I tell my friends I'm heading out, they say stay for a little bit more. So, change of plans I say yes to that, stay, and then move on to my other plans.
That's just one simple example, but it's made my plans' timing work out perfectly, just about every single time.
So, after testing out this new strategy of staying in the moment, along with the added incentive to say yes to things, I've been feeling my mood get better. I think about more positive thoughts, say more positive things, and give off a more positive vibe. It's all related, and this is another one of my new life enlightenments.
