And We Danced

So I finally actually danced with lady folk this weekend.
I don't know why I've never done it before, maybe it's just because I've never really been a big fan of dancing in general, and I never built the confidence to do it, yet I'm fine with embarrassing myself in public. Who knows why I'm like that. Well anyways, I just want to get down some thoughts.
1st thought - Why go to a party when you're in a relationship and just not dance with people? I bring this up because how boring is it to go out and just... not let loose?
Hear me out - it's good to be in a relationship. It's healthy, it's fun, it's consistent, and (supposed to be) stress-free. Relationships are supposed to make your life better and happier in almost every aspect. But some people take this as a loss of freedom. It isn't. Everyone sees relationships as this huuggeee commitment that has to be just like everyone else's relationships. *Yawn* Boooorrrinnngg. Why not try a more casual relationship that's more fun? I'm thinking about something along the lines of no sleeping with anyone else, but dancing is cool, and flirting is still fine. I mean, this requires a lot of trust, but still. Live a little, we're still young. And anyways, communication is good. If the other person in the relationship is really starting to get feelings for the other, talk it out. Don't make it a game, that just causes drama. Just be open about everything, relax, and go through the roller coaster that is life.
2nd thought - I've realized it's really easy to be ballsy. My best tip of advice, just DO it. If you don't, you're losing another opportunity to be lucky.
I went to a dance with a girl who I thought was cute, I met her earlier this week. We danced a few times, but at one point I was pretty proud of myself, yet it was kinda douchey. Basically in the middle of her dancing with some other dude, I went over to her pretending I had to tell her something. Then I went around the corner and we danced. On a normal day I'd never think of doing that, I'm not sure what came to my mind.
3rd thought - People, going out is NOT about getting absolutely hammered.
Sure the thought of being completely ridiculous sounds cool and all and forgetting what dumb things you did has an excitement behind it, but at what cost? Why not just go out feeling loosey goosey, but still coherent. The night will be just as fun, I promise. Also, it's a LOT better for your health to not guzzle down loads of "dat special drank."

Also, this weekend has made me find such a bigger appreciation for music. Especially with my new speaker setup, which left me just about absolutely broke in the bank. Like, 9 dollars away from getting extra charges. I guess I'm just a lucky guy...